COULD YOU FORGIVE A BETRAYAL OF YOUR BELOVED MAN?

So, I find interesting these topics in the forum, it´s a bit controversial. And I was reading a classic of Brazilian literature, Dom Casmurro, and then, I liked this question.

What do you think about it? I'm vindictive. Unfortunately. I would have done the same thing and then, goodbye to him. Yes, I´m an evil person.

joking. Or not.

o.O Li.llium!! You're scaring me!!! xD
My answer at the poll was the first...obviously...!!! ;P
I can't stand a betrayal...in any way... Never in my life i can accept something like that...-.-
I'm not vendicative but i'll be very upset...and i'll be pissed off by him...I will have so much rage on me that I could do the third world war...or a new atomic bomb...more powerfully than the Einstein's bomb...!!
Ahahh I haven't problem on sharing with youin my last love experience... well...last year i said to my boyfriend 'it's over' he accepted it and we said goodbye peaceful without drama...
But only few days ago I knew about the fact tha while he was with me he betrayed me....-.- oh my god...i said to me... Now i'm in peace with myself...i only said to my best friend I was good to left that dumb-asshole-troll-boy....sorry for the expression but his person to me is went under my shoes when I knew about it....
Well that's life...!! Now i'm single free and so sooo happy
I swear it!!!
The topic is referring on love triangle between yuki, kaname and the hooded woman..isn't it?!
Well imo i think yuki will (unfortunately) forgive kaname, but is plausible cause he was so young at that time kaname xD

Do you remember? In the first arc, Yuki and Aido were talking about Kaname. Both of them replied: I do not care about being betrayed. This is a mirror on the behavior of both. They will always forgive Kaname, regardless of what he is doing.

But my question is a social question too, but I don´t see a thread when I could put this poll.

My answer about it:
In this situation, I'm between doing the same thing and break up or see this person as the poop of the horse of bandit. Sorry about my dirty expression.

Li.llium wrote:Do you remember? In the first arc, Yuki and Aido were talking about Kaname. Both of them replied: I do not care about being betrayed. This is a mirror on the behavior of both. They will always forgive Kaname, regardless of what he is doing.

But my question is a social question too, but I don´t see a thread when I could put this poll.

My answer about it:
In this situation, I'm between doing the same thing and break up or see this person as the poop of the horse of bandit. Sorry about my dirty expression.

I can't conceive a phrase like that:

I do not care about being betrayed. This is a mirror on the behavior of both. They will always forgive Kaname, regardless of what he is doing.

Yuki and Aidou are both kind heart person and as always these person get always disappointed by their love (who can be a friend, a fiance, ...)...

Well, If my beloved betrayed me, I would still love him of course...I would try to talk some sense into him and tell him what he is doing is wrong...But if that didn't work I would try to move on.

I'd hate what he was doing, but I could never hate him.

It's a difficult question. If it's about cheating now I would say that I won't. but things may be different if the real thing would happen.

For example when an accident occur is simple to say that you must call the ambulance but the reality is very different. the panic can be so great that you won't be able to do anything; heck you won't even know your name with the ID in front on you.

If my beloved man would betray me, I could not forgive him.
Well, and if he would do that, then he is certainly not the love of my life!!
The love of my life wouldn't do that, or it wouldn't be the love of my life. :3

I hope you know, what I'm trying to say. ^^

Real life is very different. At least that's what the realistically movies shows today. Movies and books. I do not know if the reality is like that, really (one day, sooner or later you will be awarded this misfortune) or if people are increasingly selfish.

Because I understand you feel physical attraction to another person. I understand you stop loving your ex-beloved. But I do not understand you making love / sex before putting an end to your previous relationship. It's like wanting to have two people at once, without their consent. It is selfishness.

But the question is about forgiveness. = If forgive = have a loving relationship with him/her again, I find it hard to forgive, to me. I probably could have disgusted this person, their kiss, etc..

I was watching Felicity - you can laugh, I had never seen the last chapter. And the heroine forgives Ben, her boyfriend. The way he explained why and how he had betrayed her, but he still loves her, just her, it´s...acceptable, more or less.

I think I have a large ego to stay with a person who did it ._. I´ll thinking of find someone better for me =D

The love of my life wouldn't do that, or it wouldn't be the love of my life. :3

Co-sign ^^

Lisi wrote:If my beloved man would betray me, I could not forgive him.
Well, and if he would do that, then he is certainly not the love of my life!!
The love of my life wouldn't do that, or it wouldn't be the love of my life. :3

I hope you know, what I'm trying to say. ^^

lol!

The love of my life wouldn't do that, or it wouldn't be the love of my life. :3

Too true!! You're so right Lisi!!
xD
We are two of a kind!!!